Have you ever been told by the girl you’re crazy about that she likes you but she just can’t think of having a relationship with you?
The minute she tells you that, you’ll conveniently choose to ignore the last part and focus only on the part where she said she likes you. You’ll put yourself in ‘extreme psycho’ mode. You’ll get clingy, you’ll keep calling and texting her, you might even do some extremely bold and romantic gestures of love just to get her attention and you’ll be sure of the fact that you have the ability to turn this ‘liking’ into something more.
Listen to me when I tell you this: these are all very BAD ideas, ideas that you will most definitely regret in the near future. However, all hope isn’t lost just yet. I’m here to tell you the things that can still give you a chance:
Stop going crazy over what’s in her head
If a woman says that she likes you, it can mean one of two things – one, that this might be the start of something new for her and something she’ll consider pursuing in the future, or the other more dismaying possibility, that she just didn’t want to straight up break your heart by telling you that she has no romantic interest in you whatsoever.
Whichever the case might be, you won’t just figure it out by obsessing over her every word and move or by wondering and guessing for days what might be going on in her head. Just forget about what she’s thinking and let this story run its own course.