Start off your new year fresh, let go of the negativity and leave it behind.
They say love comes to those who wait, but for how long? Surely, it comes to those who wait but they act smartly about it. At times, we end up believing too much in the aforementioned phrase and think that it’s just not the right time. Trust us, the idea of right time is an illusion, you ought to create it by your doings.
2017 is around the corner so to make sure you are not endowing with an obstacle that is resisting your love to reach you, here are a few things that you ought to keep in mind:
1. Know yourself
Knowing oneself is the key to success in all domains of life. It gives you a sense of confidence and enhances the self congruence. You can know yourself by exploring yourself. Your imperfection s and problems do not define you. Think about what you like, what you dislike, what makes you happy and what makes you upset. What drives you crazy and gives you a thrill?
Know your feelings and also know the reasons underneath. Make adjustments accordingly and own what you feel or like. Your confidence and knowledge is your beauty and it will surely attract the right person towards you.
Also, be honest with yourself, stay in present stop doing things that do not make you happy. Do not pretend to be someone you are not. Understand yourself and allow yourself to embrace it with a fear of judgments what so ever.
2. Your happiness:
God has given this life to you and it’s solely you who should be in charge of it. Your happiness and peace should be your priority. If you won’t take care of yourself and your contentment then who will? Don’t make yourself a mess and suffer for people who treat you like garbage.
Be bold and brave enough to protect your happiness. To be in a healthy a relationship you need to be healthy too: this health includes both your mental as well as your physical health. Fulfill your own wants and needs if you want to feel satisfied and whole in a relationship. Come on, a happy person is much more preferable for a relationship.