The messy and chaotic descriptions of love interest are only here to stay in books and fantasies. Everyone wants to be with someone who offers them happiness and positivity. Just think about it, can you make your partner happy when you are not? So yes! Take care of yourself and your happiness.
3. Learn from your mistakes and live in the moment
You are a human being and you do make mistakes. Trust us making mistakes is fine but not learning from your mistakes is where you get things wrong. By repeating these mistakes you further screw yourself and get into the mess. Learn your lesson and move on. Do not develop a fixation and do not get stuck there. Live in the moment either good or bad, live it to its fullest and just move on. A new day should come with new beginnings, don’t waste your time by recalling your mistakes and feeling rotten about it.
Seek pleasure and enjoy the way world is at that particular moment. Forget what you missed and what you lost. Be positive and appreciate the little things in your life. Notice the clear sky, first ray of sun in the morning, the dewdrops on the grass, first spring flower, the lyrics of your favorite song, the cute little things your pet does, compliment a stranger for her lovely dress and notice the smile on her face, and also notice the wave of positivity it brings on. Notice the happiness that you feel with long walks by the beach and the happiness that comes with crazy long drives with your friends. Trust us; these little things bring the greatest of joys.
4. Be kind:
Kindness is really important. But wait! Don’t be selfish by considering your happiness only. Be kind and considerate and think about the people around you too. Be kind enough to help and old person cross the road, be caring enough to help a child with his home work, be considerate enough to help a friend in the hour of need. Be empathetic and understand people and their problems. Shower them with kindness and love instead of anger outburst and mood swings.